As hard it can be, try to imagine you living in a different way. Ok, I can hear you thinking “easy to say, not easy to do”. Yes, you’re right. You must work to pay taxes, food, schools, and so on. But I would like you to try though: what would you be or do if ever it was not a problem of money nor time?
This is a simple question people I coach can hardly reply to, because they didn’t dare to think about it before. However, it is the beginning of every decision you can take in the future: you have to project yourself in a different way of living to get what you have to do first to reach your goal.
Most of the time, people have spent their whole life working hard, without looking back, just going on and on, because they thought they got no other choice. Maybe you’re one of them, with a big sense of responsibilities and taking care of your family. But you can open your wings, though. The way you see your path is very important: enlightened, sunny, warm, beautiful, full of love and good friends… it’s up to you: choose what you want it to be right now (you may get lots options, it’s free!). It’s the first step to make it happen. You are the only person who exactly knows what is made for you, good for you. Don’t let others make your decisions. Find out by yourself what you’d like to change for better. It must come from your inner voice. You have to slow down and think a few minutes about that.
Once you have a little idea about the question, find how to start: websites, chats, people around you, family, friends, colleagues… every person can bring you a part of a solution to any issue, or any question. To add a touch of reality to your project, build a paper board of vision: looking at some images which make you dreaming (a bigger house, a new job, a slim body, more spirituality, new friends…) will help you to keep on your path and go further. You’ll pin it on a wall at home, maybe a private space like your bedroom: it will be the first thing you’ll look at when you wake up, and the last one before sleeping. As for a mantra, the paper board will will let in your wishes to your head.
Think yourself as if everything has come on yet in your reality: you’re going to create your new life a bit more each day, each hour, each minute. Ask some help from your guides and angels when need, so remember one important thing: when you’re right, when you’re on your own path, things go easy. Always. It must be a mark for you, something you can rely on to be sure you’re good. Don’t force through : when it’s hard, it just means things aren’t made for you now. Wait, or simply change your plan.
I wish you to open your wings right now to fly higher!
With love,
Jane