Following my previous post “Love me as I am”, my intuition led me to write about a thing a lot of people forget when they meet love. I want to talk about our space: home, mind, physical surroundings, body, friends, and so on.
Well, firstly let’s chat about you: you’re in love, your romance just starts, you’re up on the cloud #9, you’re dreamin’ all the time long (so working has become harder because you can’t concentrate yourself more than 5′). Congrats! You spend your time thinking about this new lover, so you talk about him (or she) most of the time to your best friends, your parents, maybe your boss. You’re in love. People around you are happy for you (even your boss, of course!) but would like you to be on the next step, the time when your romance is old enough you can talk over everything else!
But there’s a stuff nobody wants to talk about, whether you’re a man or a female: you abs must give this lover a place in your life!
It sounds easy, saying that, but it’s not actually. You have spent such a long time single (I don’t want here to talk about your sex drive!), so you live as… a single! Your habits are those of a single. What you eat, where you go out, when you are on holidays, people you like to meet, what your job is made of, your family… all around you has been built because of (or thanks to) your single life. I don’t blame anybody, on the contrary, I find that very smart and intuitive… it’s just you have to consider things are moving in your life: love is making your new nest.
I know you could be freaky seen as I tell you things this way, but you’re going to let your old habits down to create new ones. Are you happy to get this new and great love in your life? If so, well, changing is not going to disturb you so much, because as you have attracted this love (listen again Attraction Law on Youtube) you have got the idea of a big change in your life. If you’re asking yourself some questions about this love, you probably need more time to feel comfortable with the idea of change. You may be this kind of person who wants clues to go ahead in a relationship, and need time to get your love is shared. It’s ok too.
But anyway a day will come up you’ll need to share more than a week-end together, more than a few hours stolen here and there because of your two full time jobs, or because of the distance between you both cities.
That’s life!
You’ll have to share your space, your bed, your breakkie, your food shopping… but also your future, that means your dreams, your wills, your expectations… that means your imagination, your smile, your soul… the best of you. Won’t you? It means it will be the same for this wonderful lover who will love you as well… It means this oher one so waited for many years sometimes, will be there, in your heart, in your mind, in your life on earth, to be sheltered whatever happen. It means you will both look on the same direction, you will both be two windows opened to the outside. True Love can’t stand approximate feelings nor situations. It needs to cover up all of your life to spread its awesome power.
So, let me sum up:
- empty your closets (read my post about it!)
- ask your angels for a guidance (read my post about it too!)
- be aware of your seduction (so read my post “Love me as I am”)
- Make your new romance a place in your life
I think you’re ready to be very very very happy!
Love,
Jane