How many times did you hear that phrase? How many times a person you trusted broke a promise to keep a secret save and betrayed you? How many times you swore it would never happen to you again? How many times did it happen again? And again? And again?
Here on this post, I want to talk to all of you who perfectly know this kind of embarrassing situation. People can hurt sometimes, especially when you trust them. Because of your full faith in them, you’re not under control and deliver messages that could be used against you… what can be done to avoid it?
A secret is something that can’t be said to others. No matter what it’s made of, actually. It’s just something that can’t be told to someone else. The best way to keep a secret saved is to keep it inside you. But who really can do that? Isn’t it easier to find an accommodating person to share this secret that’s too heavy for yourself? Isn’t it good to tell a secret in the aim to be helped to solve an issue? But a secret is often an information you want to release to someone else to feel yourself important, to show people (at work, with family or friends) you know more things than them. The ego is there, hidden behind your nice smile and your taste for spectacular revelations: you want to be the one who knows, the one who says, the one who’s right to say something that should be kept secret.
Analyze deep in your awareness the last time you should have remained silent and you didn’t. Feel deep in your heart how bad you were at that time. You perfectly knew you were betraying the person who trusted you… and yet…
I don’t want to put on any judgement on that, because fisrtable it’s not my role, and secondly I’m like you: a person who did it, who will do it again if ever I don’t change that. But maybe we all could check the reasons why we like secrets so much and why it’s so hard not to keep them saved. Beyong the secret itself, there is the feeling inside each other that we’re all interconnected, linked, nested like billions multicolored pieces of Lego. No secret can be stronger than Universal Love, than this power, this full energy that makes us connected. We’re all fed by Love, so no secret could stop it. The one who gets a secret can be a threat to others.
But I can hear you thinking: “everyone gets some secrets! Everything can’t be told!” You’re right! So if ever you want your secret saved (so keep your friends/boss/united family members/hair dresser… saved as well) don’t tell anyone you’ve got one. A secret must not be shared. Just because it’s a… secret!
Love,
Jane