Sometimes it’s hard to stay connected with your inner strength. Living isn’t an easy thing, especially when all around you seems to turn bad.
You don’t love you anymore: this tummy is too big, your body too heavy, too soft, too fat, too… everything actually! Your hair isn’t long enough, your skin isn’t light… You feel disappointed, a bit anxious, sad or very angry against you… maybe you are all of that. Nothing fits you anymore from your wardrobe. So you think you’re turning into hell: psychic, mental, physical. You almost want to hide yourself, and don’t pick up the phone when your friends call you up even. You feel lonely, sad, exhausted… you don’t want to go out anymore. Nothing’s turns good. So…
Slow down! You need to stop the machines and look deep in your heart: love is not so far… To change your mind set into an other one, positive, you need to adopt some new acts like to call back your friends. Invite them all at home for a dinner. Maybe they’ll also come on to help you by doing some work on the garden of wilderness, or by taking off from your wardrobe all these old clothes that can’t fit you anymore.
Ask them everything:
- to lend you that CD you’d like to listen to again to remind you a good old time
- a good book to read
- to drive you to a place you didn’t go to for a while
- to tell you a beautiful love story
- to stay at home one night or two because you feel lonely and sad
- to teach something you always wanted to learn: how to knit, sew, draw, paint, or cook a marmelade, a big cake, or do some homework…
Well, anything that could make you happy and self-confident again.
Then you’ll be in a better move, I can assure you. You just need to be connected again with your inner power and get more self-confidence. So please, look at you in the mirror. What can you see now? A nice person who grows a smile in its heart again, a wonderful person who takes care of it, and tries to change things for better. You have put some magic on your life again, just by making a step on the side. You didn’t want to surrender nor to let sadness get the power. You’re someone doing something very important: creating love inside and around you! Look at your friends, at your family: they are happy to watch at you laughing and smiling again! So no matter these pounds in excess or your hair not long enough: find a way to feel fine and beautiful as you are. You deserve it. Don’t let people at work or at the shop center to make you think otherwise. You’re becoming this person you want to be because you are on your way for that.
With love,
Jane